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Powerful Kick Face Ex-Lover

Written By empapat on Minggu, 24 Juli 2011 | 07.20

Breakup does not mean to abstain from a former lover. Moreover, you still saw him often.

Recent studies, showed that more than 10 million ex-spouse is still working together after a breakup. Despite the fact that the last thing you expect to want to do, you still can pass through it well.

There are several ways to behave when dealing and working with the former, as quoted from The Frisky.

If you are disconnected:

1. Give ex-lover of space
If you are broke, do not give hope to reconnect. Avoid contact, unless indeed you are obliged to do so because of work. This gave a signal, you really want to end the relationship.

2. Ignore the bad attitude
If a former lover and behaving badly hurt on you when in public, ignore it. Stay calm and avoid replying in any form. Opens in a public relations man will only damage your credibility.

3. Wise
Sooner or later you'll meet new people and start dating again. Be wise when you bring a new lover near the former. As it will likely hurt him. Keep your lover does not call by dialing excessive love or show affection.

When you decided:

1. Keep family and friends of the conflict
When you used to be a co-worker, or he's close to the family, as much as possible keep the subject on a former lover. Vent occasionally acceptable, but do not force it to family and friends on your side. And, do not force them to stay away from ex, like you do.

2. Do not look for problems with the former
Often, you want to know what caused the breakup. Especially when you are forced to explain in public places. If your ex is not willing to discuss it privately, you should also start to forget the question.

3. See the positive
Perhaps you no longer like a former lover. But that's no reason this situation is affecting your life. Being friendly with former co-workers and who also tried to find positive values ​​in order to speed up recovery after separation.
07.20 | 0 komentar | Read More

Six Things Destroyer Relations

Currently undergoing a relationship, many things that can make the journey of love with the couple shaken. If not addressed immediately, this will be the cause of shipwreck of the relationship.

If there salahsatunya in your current relationship, seek immediate solutions so as not to get caught up in it.

Here are six things destructive relationships as quoted from the pages of She Know:

1. Distrust
One of the main things that can kill your relationship is the lack of trust. If couples do not trust each other, your relationship will not run smoothly.

If you constantly suspect your spouse, or vice versa, the relationship will die slowly. Find out what is causing distrust among you. Speak from the heart to finish it.

2.Stres
Many things can cause stress in relationships.
In a stressful relationship, separation will be easily realized.

Discover how to take it out, with a partner or alone. If necessary, open your mind to others will reduce the burden on the mind.

3.Menyimpan revenge
Never hold a grudge on the couple. If you or your spouse hold a grudge with each other, you will be hard to build a future together.

To fix this, you need to talk about the reasons you hold a grudge. If you need a third party to help you, do it.

4.Kurang communication
The couple will be difficult mema rarely communicate with your partner.
Wedge express how you feel. Start with small things, to things that require significant attention.

5.Selalu different opinion
You always disagree in almost every way. Careful, big quarrel originated from small fights. Take time for yourself and think with a cool head to see the relationship with a positive perspective.
  
6.Mantan lover
Not beararti You can no longer friends with the former. However, better keep a distance with a former lover in order not to arise suspicion. Tell your partner today, that you and your ex once had a close relationship in masalalu.

Give meaning to the couple, that your relationship with him has ended.

There are many other things that can kill your relationship, but not everything can be solved easily. Communication is the key to overcome them.
07.13 | 0 komentar | Read More

signals related to romance a man's body

Very interesting and fun to guess someone's feelings through body language. Especially in terms of romance. Body language is more easily expressed than spoken language.

If you are currently near or liked a guy and do not yet know his feelings, try to notice his posture. So you do not either "read", relationship expert, Bree Maresca-Kramer, revealing three men's body signals related to romance, as reported from Stylecaster.

1. A woman likes you
- His eyebrows will be raised during your meeting. Then, when you talk he will be watched carefully and looked very interested in what you are talking about. His eyes look bigger even when I saw you.
- He will try to attract your attention. He started using body language and movement. Unconsciously he began to distance himself from his friends with a couple of times seen itself, the hope is seen as an individual.
- He chose a seat close to you, to get closer physically.


2. He's not interested
- If he does not make much eye contact when you talk to him, it's not a good sign.
- He does not try to sit or be around you, but it's very possible.
- If the shoulder led to during the conversation, then he is not interested. That's because when a man is attracted to a woman, she will stare at his face, and shoulders do not will not lead directly.

3. Si He just wants to be friends
- He did not respond to your temptations, even when it is obvious or physically. He will take them for granted
- He will keep his body position looks very strong. Not warm or soft. When a man loves a woman, he would position himself closer to your feet and shoulders will be reduced to create a soft impression.
- When you have a problem, he would be happy to help. But only to keep you calm down, there will be no romantic gestures.
07.12 | 0 komentar | Read More

Advantages So Spoiled Women

Definitely negative presumption inherent in women spoiled, very dependent on the spouse or partner to check each time. Men do not really like to set up, including banned by the couple gathered with his friends.

But this attitude, it turns out to have a positive impact, as long as it do not overdo it. As reported by Shine, according to research by a team from the University of the Basque Country, Spain, attitude control this if done occasionally, will bring a positive impact on relationships, including increasing sexual desire.

The researchers found that the ability to put yourself in a "dependency", which is dependent on a partner, can increase sexual desire and make you happier in living relationships. This conclusion is obtained by analyzing 200 people.

The more you feel safe and calm through the relationship, the more will feel happier and even more satisfying sex life. This sense of security may arise from the feeling of being dependent and can rely on your partner when needed.

Sense of calm can indeed reduce the risk of conflict in relationships. This is very important because the constant conflict will have a negative impact on sexual desire can make the relationship any less happy.

The researchers note that there are two groups of people who always feel insecure in relationships undergo. First, they are anxious for fear of facing the couple and their second response is always to avoid response pairs. Both groups have also reported low sexual desire.
07.11 | 0 komentar | Read More

Different Communication Styles Men and Women

It's no secret that men and women have different ways of communicating. But that does not mean there is no way to translate how the 'Mars' and 'Venus' speech.

"There is hope as long as you're willing to adjust your filter that is part of your brain that processes what he says," said Dr B Janet Hibbs, a psychologist, couples therapist and author Try to See It My Way, as quoted by Shine.

Know, communication problems often occur in the couple's relationship. Obviously, this is so you know how to cope with and can avoid it.

1. In a quarrel
In an argument, maybe you often hear him say an apology is sudden and not as sincere from the heart. Like, "I'm sorry you feel that way".

You may not hear the apology as sincere. Rather, as a justification that the problems and fights that happened was your fault. You may even think that the couple feel tired at you.

In fact, the intent of his words is that the fight to an end and not extended to other problems. In a fight, women tend to like to confuse the issue. Meanwhile, men have an instinct to resist, especially if he does not understand why you are angry.

2. In a complaint
You often complain about the work on the couple. However, sometimes often get a dismissive response from him. Is this true?

In fact, men tend to see themselves as problem solvers. So, what he said might be a solution short of trying he gave.

For example, you feel the work you do not balance with the price paid. Then, the couple only say simple things like, 'if you feel it's unfair, ask for a raise'. However, the sound in your ear is 'your problem is simple, finish it yourself'.

This makes you not feel that being said the couple is a solution. Indeed, as a matter of showing the nature acuhnya. In fact, he has helped you find a solution, although only a simple solution.

3. In a conversation
Women tend to tell things in a convoluted manner. All that can be said to be related to the length, but essentially very simple. Meanwhile, men do not process information that is too long with a broad overview.

Therefore, he often looks bored with a convoluted story. However, you catch the reaction as a sign that your story did not attract his attention. Try to condense a story on important points, you will get attention from him.

4. In a problem-solving
The 'Mars' is born by nature indifferent to trivial things. Meanwhile, the women or the 'Venus' requires a belief that the trivial will not interfere with their relationship.

Too much thinking, worrying about the little things make the problem much worse or even create new problems. The differences in perspective is what makes men and women are sometimes difficult to find agreement.
07.09 | 0 komentar | Read More

Four Myths About Men

Many myths about men among women. Start things that motivate the single men when looking for a mate, until men are in a marriage relationship.

Based on a survey on the site StraightMaleFriend.com man, when she thought she knew everything about him, they actually do not know anything. Character of men who believed women had been not quite true.

Here are some myths about the notion of women against men as quoted from Shine.

1. Men like to chase women
Men are generally happy to get acquainted with a foreign woman and just invite them to have fun. Because they would not be ashamed if rejected. Before taking their coveted women dating, many men are more likely to first see whether he accepted or not.

And, in fact men love women who pursue them first.

2. Men only think about sex
Generally, women think the reason a man befriended a woman for wanting to have sex.

This is wrong, because men will only make the session a more intimate relationship if the woman allows. Many friendships between men and women because they have the same views and match each other.

3. Men do not like fantasy
Although more realistic, he is also happy to fantasize and imagine the things they crave.

Men love to imagine things visually that they consider sexy and seductive women. Tight jeans and leggings are able to make their fantasy.

4. Men do not like independent women
Most of the men did, but not for others. Especially men aged under 40 years old. Many men in this age-related and even going out with a strong and independent woman.

Even so, men want to be seen as a 'provider' is good for his partner and spouse can be a place to complain. Strong and independent woman who will not make him nervous or intimidated. A man will even feel confident and proud of lone pairs and has the power.
07.08 | 0 komentar | Read More

Recognize Asmara Track Record

Although he's affair with a former boyfriend has ended, it would not hurt if you find out the 'story'. This could be your reference in a relationship with him.

Surely not to stir up old wounds, but more on that you and he does not repeat the same mistakes. To that end, know the track record of amorous men that was launched from the following Yourtango.

1. Devotees monogamy
Men of this type are eager to be loved sincerely. No fear of commitment. But be careful, if he's too hasty take seriously, it could be because only the fear of being alone. Not because he is sure to make you become his friend.

2. Ever cheated on
Although he had an affair, not necessarily he will do it again on you. Precisely when he told of the affair he had done, he could be very sorry.

Find out just the main reason why he was having an affair. Discussion of this can actually make you more familiar with his personality.

3. Victims of infidelity
Men who had been a victim of infidelity tends to be hard to believe with their partner. He also will be a little trauma in relationships. It took a rather long process, so that he can trust you.

4. Playboy
Man playboy is very tempting and hard to resist. If you already know how he simply changing partners, and still want to be her lover, a 'must' accept the risk. Even if the end bitter, at least you had fun with it.
07.04 | 0 komentar | Read More
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